There’s this: https://www.shrm.org/ResourcesAndTools/hr-topics/benefits/Pages/help-men-take-parental-leave.aspx
23% of men could be taking parental leave but do not. Coupled with the ratio of 1 day:1 month. That’s how much time fathers take off compared to mothers.
And this simple distinction between managers and helpers.
washing dishes: a father’s glimpses 